Comments on: Envisioning a New Year

By: Treva

Treva — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:44:44 +0000

so thoughtful and thought-provoking…i think “weighing and measuring” might be my theme this year–totally aimed at me (not others) and deciding if what i have and hold is worth it’s weight…i don’t do church (after being raised in it for 20+ years), my spirituality is separate from religion and i know that the only one responsible for my walk is me and i’m willing to take that weight…even though i have been judged by others and declared that i am not doing my job as a parent in regards to providing religion for my children…i have to weigh and measure my decisions to see if they are right for me because the last thing i want to do is be hypocritical for my children…anyways, this introspection is ongoing and will apply to all areas…it’s encouraging to know that you and others have your own agendas for the year…blessings in 2010!
(btw, i envisioned my 40th as a start over for my life to become what i want it to be based on my experiences and education to that point…hard work but most welcomed and more authentic)

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Oh, I’m totally with you about envisioning your 4th as a new start. It’s part of what inspired the whole “theming” of my years, a few years back. I realized that I had a lot of work to do if I wanted to start the second half of my life healthy, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. It is hard work, but I agree, so worth it!

Thanks so much for hanging in there with me this year! Hey, when is the big move?? ~W

By: sadira

sadira — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:01:22 +0000

You know. I’ve been thinking a lot about a word for this year, which is kind of interesting, because I’ve never approached a new year thus…however, it’s come up a few times now so I thought I’d sit up and take notice. I keep thinking that I would choose something that I could “do” and I came up with “Remember”…so that I could pair it with such words as Love, Confidence, Magic…Although, I don’t want to use “Remember” in such a clingy way that I try to hold onto what I judge to be “good” (wow…maybe I should have used the word “quotation” “snicker…”) It’s just that I had such a mind blowing end to the year…I was like, “oh…well then. I suppose all THAT growth was worth it then? Whoa! I’ll say” And watched a couple of doors slam shut and blow open a totally different door that I wasn’t even aware of…it’s like a Video Game in my head.

And seriously? You are so very good at nurturing relationships. Honestly, I always feel so cared for and listened to after we exchange words…And I just love everything you said about weighty relationships…I get that! I finally actually GET it. Yes…it took a while, but dang.

I am just thrilled to see everything that you will be doing this next year with your new commitment to yourself Wende…Cheers to you and everyone who is lucky to share this space with you!

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Sadira, I’ve so appreciated your companionship in this journey. Both on this blog and all the lovely emails we’ve exchanged–if somewhat sporadic on my end! I have been holding on to your words this week and it’s been a real gift. So, thank you!! ~W

By: Liza Lee Miller

Liza Lee Miller — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 06:03:11 +0000

I really just popped in to talk about me!

I love the theme of “feeding” but I think, for me, it might prove to be the undoing of the “lighter” theme of the previous year.

I have faith in your abilities though. I am consistently dazzled by your powers of insight and growth. I hope your soul is fed but that your heart stays light!

All the best in 2010!

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Liza, that made me laugh. In fact, I’m still chortling over it! And trust me, I was kinda shocked “feeding” came up–you know, I sit with this stuff and wait to see what surfaces. And if the scale is any indication, I might have been taking this theme a BIT TOO LITERALLY this holiday season. But in truth, there is something about nourishment that I want to hang on to. Especially if food is involved!

Thank you so much for always making me laugh, my pink loving friend. And for all the fabulous sky photos on your blog. You know how to help keep me sane! ~Wende

By: katie

katie — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:42:12 +0000

SOmetimes, as difficult as it is, quitting is necessary. The ‘propping relationships up’ paragraph hit me quite hard. That’s one of the toughest areas I face, I think… trying to keep bare strands of realtionships unbroken. And why? Hmmm. Good thoughts.

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In truth, it was the last hurdle of the year. And is really a work in progress. But I finally came to realize that I wasn’t really losing anything–because it was already gone. Or never really there. AND, and this is the big part, when you stop maintaining dead branches and really PRUNE, you have more time to invest in the relationships that are living. And then your life begins to thrive. It’s hard work, but totally worth it. ~W

By: Carly

Carly — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:23:12 +0000

Theming a year – I like it!

And once again, after reading a bit of inspiration, I am glad that I “know” you!

PS. God and I started a bathtub club. You and God get into a bath tub full of steamy water and reflects. Extra spiritual points for essential oils or bubbles. You should totally join.

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Ok, so I don’t have a bathtub in this house that I’d ever sit down in—but I’m digging the idea via the shower. In fact, it sounds like a perfect excuse to buy some fabulous bath gel (I’ve been out for 9 months) and commune with the spirit in the water.

And I’m elated to have found you, Carly. I so appreciate your depth of character and your willingness to “go there” with me. I’m holding good thoughts for your future!! ~W

By: IZ

IZ — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:16:11 +0000

I think my focus this year is to live into what I have and “what is” while finding ways to bring the future closer, faster. All I know for sure is that being in the moment with you and G is most important -and I want to lift that up and celebrate it as much as possible.

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You remain the brightest part of my day and the reason I have hope. Thank you, thank you, thank you for loving me. For being willing to see past all those barriers I’m so found of throwing up and for supporting all my craziness. I adore you. ~W

By: Margaret

Margaret — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:04:39 +0000

Sorry to hear about your set-backs; I could tell you a few stories too…There were a couple that couldn’t make it onto the blog. Would it be appropriate, given your revelations to say a hearty AMEN?? I too have become “lighter” although without your wonderful self-exploration and the beauty of a theme. I love it!! In my case, I couldn’t let myself care any more about certain people and things; they were making me into a person I didn’t want to be. Love ya!

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Thanks, Margaret! It doesn’t always make the blog. But it’s good to know there are people out there who care! ~Wende